My friend Barbara fell madly in love and married when she was in her sixties. She used to make me nauseous talking about how much she loved this man.
Now I get it. My Boyfriend and I play by all new rules. It's romance all the way. We don't argue about money. He has his, I have mine. We don't argue about grown children. I admire his and he tries to keep up with the massive army I call "family." We don't argue about religion (even though this is a huge item with me.)
We don't argue about health issues.
The last thing I want in this relationship is for us to be screaming at each other "TAKE YOUR MEDICINE!"