Dear Abby

My boyfriend plays golf. He started when he was twelve years old.

He remembers the first tee of every golf course he played on his high school golf team. He can describe them.

He played golf in college and for the army.

When I read in his golf club's magazine that he's made four holes in one - at that particular club - I said,

"You must be a good golfer."

He said, "I used to be."

He's playing golf right now.

My question is this: I'm already a widow. If we should marry do I just add the word "Golf?"