But then I read an article this week about the growing popularity of having birthday parties for dogs. Yes, that's crazy too - but the point is, the suggestions work equally well for little ones and dogs. So here are some of the most helpful doggie party ideas that work equally well with toddlers:
- Have the party in a fenced yard - with the emphasis on the word "fenced." Imagine having a dog birthday party in the house. Now imagine have the same party for 1 to 3 year olds. It's the same image, right? But don't try the yard party without a fence because herding dogs and toddlers is like, well, herding dogs and toddlers.
- Have a responsible adult accompany each dog or toddler - no drop offs! Actually the article suggests the dogs should be leashed upon arriving until they get to know each other. While this is probably a good idea for the toddlers as well, I'm not recommending it.
- Crates available for dogs who might need "alone time." OK this is not going to work for the kids for the same reason as the leash idea. My daughter tells me they used to have a big comfy chair, blanket and cuddly stuffed toy available for a weepy or unhappy child. Her husband, greeting kids at the door, would text her "potential cryer in foyer."
- Costumes - The dog party experts suggest having plenty of props for photo ops like bow ties or tiaras and party hats. The toddlers might like these as well along with princess and Thomas Train outfits. But nothing scary for either group. That would be encouraging "accidents."
- Doggie Bags: The dog experts suggest tennis balls and dog-friendly baked treats. This could work for both groups.
- Games: The recommendation for dogs is "bobbing for hot dogs." Slice up hot dogs and put them in a shallow dish filled with water. Don't try this with the toddlers! They are notorious for choking on hot dogs. Besides, most moms today think of hot dogs as the next thing to poison.
The other game suggestion is non toxic, big bubbles. "Dogs try to chomp them in the air, it's hysterical ." This would work for both groups.
The article ends by saying "Luckily, dogs don't know or care how much you spend." This is true for toddlers as well. My best suggestion is to leave the dogs and toddlers at home and attend a grown up party.
You're welcome!
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